I started this blog after moving from San Diego to Maine in 2012. It was mostly about my job and parenting. Then I realized my worst fear (as a white, middle class feminist mom of three boys, an American, and a leader of a feminist nonprofit) is raising privileged, entitled, bloviating dudes who blame women, people of color and other marginalized groups for all of their issues. Now this is a blog on figuring out how not to have that happen.
